Wednesday, August 3, 2011

8/3 Grand Cardinal Cross: Grand Renogotiations, Haggling for Happiness

Pay close attention because yes, once again we revisit that Uranus, Pluto, Saturn T- Cross, and once again another planet has moved in to find itself as the finishing point in a grand cardinal cross, (a grand cross is a strong "motivational" formation in the planets)  Now things get a little more exciting, because our own personal little internal drive, that being Mars, has moved into the position of Cancer a place Mars finds challenging in and of itself.  And the moon has come conjunct to Saturn in Libra, squaring mars in its own house.  Which in turn Squares a Uranus Ceres conjunction in Aries.   That conjunction, of course squares Pluto in Capricorn, which squares our Saturn Lunar conjunction in Libra...

What does this mean?  Well our emotional sensitivities are lined up, or easily dwell on a sense of restriction and inflexibility when it comes to negotiations within personal relationships and in compromise in general, oh and did i mention Juno, the asteroid placed over how we negotiate our needs in the context of others?  SO the challenge to begin with is a question of knowing what you need, holding to it, but also remembering that this should all be about making things work, not winning, if anyone tries to win, then everyone loses.  This is then underlined by mars which is reactive and defensive in Cancer, and is encouraging us to make sure we hold to what our sensitivities require.  this butts up against Uranus-Ceres which is pushing for independence and letting go of old ideas, butting up against Pluto, the dark sense of power politics and dirty dealings going on.  

The solution?  Quite simple, when we acknowledge what we want and what we feel we can give while being true to ourselves consistently we never put ourselves in an uncomfortable place, we never fear we must war to get it.  If we are feeling it now?  Well, it means its a good time to withdraw, assess and renegotiate the implied contracts going on in your life!

If we choose to do this in Ernest we may look to a Sextil between the Juno-Moon-Saturn conjunction with a conjunction between the Sun and Venus in Leo.  Now a sextil is an interaction of potential growth and benefit, that is not automatic.  Here's how it works, we allow the personal focus on lightness warmth and optimism (Leo) to remind us to let our hackles down and renegotiate from a place where the usual discomfort is relieved... In other words: First find a happy safe place in your heart, then assess what you can give, then assess what you need, and if any of these don't match up in a relationship, consider letting the relationship change, consider where else we can get the emotional needs we are looking for.

With a little work, it's gonna be great! Promise!


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